The kids,
the teachers,
the principal,
the friends,
the tuition committee,
getting the kids into camp,
getting the kids into high school,
getting the kids a good shidduch,
the wife,
the in-laws,
the husband,
the friends,
the parents,
the grocery bill,
the mortgage,
the utility bills,
the co-workers,
the boss,
social obligations,
communal obligations,
Torah study,
attending minyan,
the car,
the washer and dryer,
and the worry about money is equal to all of them.