Would you get engaged without meeting your in laws?

Is it common for frummies to get engaged without meeting their future in laws?

I was hanging out with a newly engaged couple this weekend, and the girl met the parents when they got engaged. Am I the only one who finds this to be odd, its one thing to date for 5 weeks and decide your whole life based on a minuscule amount of time, but to not meet your future in laws.

Am I c`razy for wanting to meet the girls parents before I get all serious?