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The Definitive Guide to Frum Cars

The Ultimate Yeshivishe CarI know a successful commercial realtor who leased a Lexus before closing his first deal; he knew he was going to meet the potential buyer and he knew his first impression had to kill, maiming or merely wounding was not going to get him the deal. So he went out and leased himself the Lexus knowing that it would close the deal for him, and it did! It closed that deal as well as many others.

Clearly the car we drive communicates important things about us.

I know a 12th grade magid shiur in a yeshivish place who has used cars offered to him all the time, but he will only take the oldest, most beat up looking station wagon, or Buick Century, because spossed nisht for him to drive a nice car.

A big Lakewood askan, in a fit of insanity, once tried to start a campaign called Accords for Acuras, where all the tinsel gevirim in Lakewood would trade in their Acuras for Honda Accords. For after all, he argued whats an Acura but a glorified Accord, and its Yiddishe gelt mamish down the drain, money that our moisdes need very badly. This being Fakewood, the campaign didnt go anywhere.

So what does your car say about you?

Chevy Suburban – If you drive one of those houseboats youre probably a chossid with 13 kids for whom spossed nisht to drive a 15 passenger van because thats not shtotty enough for your refined taste.

You probably also have more strobes and bar lights decked out than the chief of police of Ferguson, MO, but thats fine, we dont judge you – we understand that you would have been a police officer and kept your lights down to a respectable minimum, if only the police weren’t such anti-Semites. But they are, so youre in Hatzalah instead.

If you drive a Chevy Equinox, on the other hand, you probably have your lights hidden behind the grille because youre an anav and youre only in Chaveirim for the mitzvah.

15 Passenger Van – Speaking of those church vehicles; if you are a chossid driving one of those monstrosities you probably do it for a living, driving families up to the Catskills and back for the summer, and sometimes driving litvish bochurim home from yeshiva on the occasional off-Shabbos. But most likely youre a litvak who wears his hat and jacket while driving and listens to R Avigdor Miller for insight into the apple seed.

You may also be a litvish woman who wears her snood over her eyes and is a danger to everyone within three blocks of her travel path.

Toyota Camry – If this is a brand new lease, youre probably a fresh-faced yungerman who likes the drivers seat because it makes you feel manly, even though your shver is probably paying for it, and if your wife is paying for it then its at least on the shvers name because you couldnt prove the income to get the lease on your own name.

You also take every opportunity to drive it because most of the week your wife commutes with it to her special-ed job in Edison while you lug the kids to their babysitters and do carpool in the minivan.

If this is a used model you got from Maven Motors then you probably didnt make the rich shidduch you were after, but had to settle for a girl who couldnt support you in style, the way hashem intended for you, but you bear it as well as you can – after all, the mishnah says poss bmelach tochal and this car feels like a slice of challah that was dipped into the salt too enthusiastically.

Minivan – Of course there are so many different minivans and each one says a lot about you.

Toyota Sienna or Honda Odyssey – If this is a lease then youre just a spendthrift or have an insatiable need to impress the Rosenbergs. If you bought this when it was only three years old and cost $14,000 then you probably took out a loan for it and you use that as an excuse on your kids scholarship application form.

Chevy Venture or Ford Freestar – Someone told you that after the GM bankruptcy their quality improved and theres no reason to buy Japanese when you can get a perfectly reliable car for half the price. That person lied to you and now you spend every second seder at the mechanic.

Mercedes Benz – Youre probably a rich Sefardi because no self-respecting Ashkenazi would pull up to their parents house for Shabbos in a Nazi car. Even if you do own a Bosch mixer thats no reason to own a Mercedes; making challah is a mitzvah, but driving to work is not.

Mazda 323 Hatchback – You havent yet found your basherte and you dont know why. You still have some issues to work through, which is fine, no one begrudges you that, take your time, youll get there yet.

Same is true if you have any car with stick shift; driving a manual is so un-Jewish that if you do it and think you’re still frum you must have issues.

Cadillac Escalade – Youre definitely a chassidishe rebbe and youre reading this in your bathroom while people wait outside your door waiting to give you money with their kvittel.

Crown Vic – You love watching people move out of the left lane when you come up behind them on the highway because they think youre a cop, but you hate the amount of gas your boat guzzles so youre probably going to go with a Dodge Charger or Chevy Impala next time.

When I moved to Lakewood I had a 19 year-old car with no air conditioning and more miles than all of Avraham Avinus camels combined. On my first day yeshiva I proudly pulled into the parking lot at the Simcha Room expecting to blend right in; to my chagrin I felt like I was in a high school playground with the bullies standing around admiring their newest cuff links and making fun of the shloomp who couldn’t afford to send his shirts to the cleaners.

While the realtor is working to impress his clients, us bnai toireh should be busy trying to impress Hashem, and Hashem is only impressed by old cars with bad struts, no shocks, a muffler tied to the frame by a gartel and windows that require a spotter to pull them up while you roll up the window.

As we listen to the shoifer blowing after shachris we should make a kabalah to trade in our Acuras for Accords.


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  • Yochanan September 19, 2014, 7:50 AM

    I grew up non-observant in Rockland County, where Monsey is located. This was in the 90s. I remember the Jewmobiles were always station wagons. When I became BT in the the 2000s, minivans seemed to be the norm. When did the transition/switch happen?

    • Shragi September 24, 2014, 5:43 AM

      They happened when the car manufacturers stopped making station wagons, I suppose.

  • Rishona Campbell October 9, 2014, 7:02 AM

    “Same is true if you have any car with stick shift; driving a manual is so un-Jewish that if you do it and think youre still frum you must have issues.”

    LOL – Soooo true! Back in the early 2000s, I drove a stick shift Ford Probe. One of my neighbors actually told me that it was such a “goyishe car” (because it was a blasted Ford AND a stick shift coupe). I had another woman who I drove home on motzei Shabbos practically catching flies with her mouth open because she didn’t know a woman could actually prefer shifting, and told me that I would definitely have to get an automatic when I have kids. Ironically I drive an automatic now….and I was much frummer back then than I am now 😛

    • shloime October 12, 2014, 6:02 AM

      Yeah but the reason you’re less frum now is because you drove the stick shift back then, see?

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