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What do you call people who are not modern and not yeshivish?

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Whether you like it or not, the Jewish community runs on labels. We need to have labels in order to know what community to live in, what schools to send our children to and what restaurants to eat at. Without those time honed labels and stereotype, a black hat guy may wind up in a modern orthodox shul with a mechitza he doesn’t hold by and start a riot. By the same token, can you imagine a bunch of regularly dressed shulamith girls walking into Mea Shearim and getting bleached because they didn’t realize it was a very religious neighborhood. In general, the frum community is broken up into several groups. Everyone can pretty much agree on Yeshivish, Modern Orthodox and Chassidic.

The technicalities such as yeshivish modern and modern orthodox liberal are contradictory, how can one be yeshivish or orthodox and liberal at the same time? In reality it doesn’t really work in the grand scheme of things, but what do we call those people who are stuck between modern orthodoxy and yeshivish. It used to be easy to label, we pretty much did it according to levush or dress codes. Black hat meant yeshivish and knitted yarmulke meant modern and anyone who looked like 18th century Eastern Europe was Chassidic. Since we can pretty much agree that Modern Orthodoxy, Liberlism and Yeshivish can’t really mix together we should probably come up with terms for those who call themselves “open Orthodox” and those who between yeshivish and modern orthodox.

Open Orthodoxy is troubling because it’s basically trying to take the conservative Judaism of the 1950’s and call it Orthodoxy. We can probably debate all day about the halachic allowance for women rabbis, but in the end Orthodoxy is much more about social norms and custom than actual letter of the law halacha. However, the purpose of this post was to come up with a new term for those folks who find themselves stuck between modern orthodoxy and yeshivish. I posted it on my facebook page and received a lot of good ideas. I think centrist orthodox is cool, but it may be an affront to those who are closer to yeshivish than to modern.

People

Orthodox

Centrist Orthodox

Hirschian

Frum but cool

Frum but with it (any term with “but” included always has a negative connotation, like most frum people aren’t with it or something)

Observant

Yeshivish inclined

Normal

Frumsatirevish

Out of towners

Nebs

Yeshivadox

Haredi Lite

Modernish

Frumish

Moshevish

Velveters (they tend to wear velvet)

JPF just plain frum

Dati

The blue shirts

Not your typical YU guy

Yeshipraax

Veltishers

Mainstream

Middle of the road

Stam Frum

Netflix Frum (too frum for a TV, but you can watch it all online)

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  • Dazed & Confused

    What do you call someone who grew up traditional in a RW but MO family, spent a lot of time rebelling against his black-hat Ner Israel neighbors, went OTD, & now davens at a Chabad shteibel but holds by R’Abadi especially on kashrut, while studying Breslov online? Am asking for a friend…

    • http://yeshivaforum.wordpress.com OfftheDwannaB

      Someone Id like to meet. Sounds like someone with a brain in his head nebech.

    • Ex-bochur

      He’s neo-hasidish

      He should make aliyah, especially if he is not yet enspoused.

    • Fred

      Confused

      • Dazed & Confused

        Well, I think he would be a little too modest to sing his own praises… but he’s definitely one who would not want to be tagged with a label… blind conformity isn’t his thing…

        He’s currently still living chutz la’aretz, but aliyah is definitely on the agenda for him & his wife – but he’s still got a few years of self-imposed shlichut in the boondocks to complete. Too many assimilated amcha & zerah yisrael keep crossing his path…

        Confused? Probably not as much as you’d think.

  • Music Wilhelm

    How about “chabad light”?? Lol

  • Anonymous

    frum but has sex

  • Reverend Larry

    ex-yeshivish

    • yankelyoffen

      No…just no. Especially if one works for ncsy.

      • http://yeshivaforum.wordpress.com OfftheDwannaB

        Huh? I think ex yeshivish is good.

  • Sarah

    I worked at a camp of the hashkafa you’re describing, and you’re right, it’s frustrating not to know what to call it! “Just to the right of modern?”

  • Eli

    Post-chareidi? That’s what Slifkin calls it.

  • I think

    Arent they cald MO machmir

  • Elli

    Blue hatters.
    Old school Ner Yisroel guy
    A shtickle modernish

    That’s for the yeshivish guy who is a bit more broad minded. For the very machmir guy from a YU background it’s:

    Rav Shachter guy
    Post-modern

  • AMF

    I thought “chardal” pretty much covered it, but I guess that’s only used in Israel.

    • Ex-bochur

      No. Chardal is “charedi-leumi” ie. the Merkaz Harav types who are basically haredi and eschew feminism and secular studies, but they are also strongly Zionist (in fact these days they are far more Zionist than the state). They live in Kiryat Moihe and Yehuda/shomron. Some are into Chabad/Breslav, but that’s not a defining characteristic.

  • http://shoshschmooze.blogspot.com shoshana

    “labes are for clothing not people”

    • portuguese yid

      Right on!

  • Should be working

    Enlighten me: What does “centrist Orthodox” mean?

    • yirmi

      Centrist Orthodox is sometimes used to refer to the Right-Wing Modern Orthodoxy, or “Orthodoxy without adjectives,” associated with YU.

  • http://google jo

    Centrist Orthodox is just another term to describe Modern Orthodoxy.

    • Should be working

      If Modern is Centrist, then what is left of that? Conservative?

  • Seriously?

    Torah Jew

  • Internetter rebbee

    We have a friend who is very chasiddish. They eat cholov yisrael, but only at home. They will eat ice cream at Friendly’s. We call them chasivitive.

  • Anonymous

    KBs (Krum Bastards)

  • SG

    How about modern Yeshivish?

  • alan zoldan

    1. Torah Trueish

    2. Holy Art Scrollers

    3. JWCC’s (Jews Without a Convenient Category)
    not to be confused with . . .

    4. JWCCM’s (Jews With Country Club Memberships)

  • Michael McG

    Phair Weather Pharisee?

  • Roch

    yeshivish secular

  • Rebecca

    What happened to Baalebatish?