If a girl doesn’t offer to pay, she’s a cheap bastard that no likes and she will never marry.

Men should pay for the time it takes for you to get ready for a date? Do men not prepare for dates as well? Who should pay for that? Uncle Sam? Why not take responsibility for your own preparations?

I disagree with your assertion. I don’t know that men want women to doll up. I prefer people be themselves. I want to interact with people honestly without all the BS. Authenticity is not a bad thing.

Anyway, I don’t think women put that crap on their faces for men. I’m convinced they do it to for other women. Most men I know don’t even notice when a woman is wearing the crap and they certainly have no idea how much effort goes into putting it on.

As far as your non sequitur about bars, in my experience, men usually pay for drinks for those women. By your definition, that means he’s interested in you!
I think we can agree that, in the example you’ve given, the man is essentially a “john” and the girl is essentially a “prostitute”.

I don’t know that. I prefer people to be themselves. I’m not looking to hang out with a tube of lipstick. If I did, I’d just go to the cosmetic aisle in a local drugstore. I want an authentic experience, not the shallow lies and phoniness.

I am convinced that women put that crap on their faces for other women and not for men.

As for your non sequitur about getting women drunk to have sex with them, I think we can agree that in a majority of those cases the men pay for the drinks. By your definition he would be expressing interest in you. I’m sure we can agree that the men are essentially johns and the girls who get drunk are prostitutes. (Regardless of whether anything happens.)

But you have to admit that this generally works well for everyone because the women that go to bars and get drunk on a first date are also generally only interested in sex!

Although most of what I write is true – the truly smart people understand my exaggerations

Well the same is true of men paying for a woman. If a man doesn’t pay for me, I figure he’s not that interested in me. In fact, if a man wants to just take me to a bar and get me drunk on the first date-as they did before I was Jewish, I conclude he only wants sex and not a relationship or marriage.